How to act in the event of a dispute between you and your husband
How to act in the event of a dispute between you and your husband
There must be a sharp dispute between the spouses
Unfortunately, many of these disputes are on a trivial thing
Rather, misbehaving during a dispute causes him to develop and reach abandonment, and perhaps the wife went to her family’s home, or reached the point of divorce, except for the severely dangerous effects on the psyche of the children, because anger blinds its owner, so his ear can only hear the voice of Satan and his whistles and jokes. And he only sees a reality that Satan depicts and exaggerates, even if the anger is silent and the absent mind returns. The couple regretted for an hour of regret .. No regrets, except for those who lost something great, and is there a greater loss than the one who lost the house and the children ?!
So do not lose your home, your husband, your children, and your happiness for a moment when you are not well-disposed of.
First: If you saw your husband angry and started screaming and cursing and accusing, then the silence is silence, the silence is silence, the silence is silence ... even if your heart is boiling like the boiling of the cauldron and it is filled with anger and oppression from the ninety of it
The man, by its nature, is nervous, quick to be aroused, and if he gets angry, he does not distinguish what is in front of him behind him, and it is never wise for him to flatten him as men argue, and to intensify whenever he becomes more and more revolutionary as he revolts, but if he intensifies, then relax and if so let’s be pampered.
Second: If you are of the nervous type, and you may not be able to remain silent when the dispute occurs, leave immediately from the room it is in.
Third: If you are the kind of quiet, calm person, do not commit silence. Rather, try to absorb his anger at that moment with a touch of tenderness that you exercise on his face and body and hug him in it, or a calm smile that shines from your mouth to extinguish the fire in his hollow. And you want to speak with her a kind, gentle word that you will like
Fourthly :
Make your husband wear the most beautiful clothes and complete the embellishment. Put on perfumes and sprinkle incense, then go to him to show him about your topic and stress the need not to talk to him until after preparing and beautifying because decorating him makes him feel that you are coming to him for the sake of his contentment and happiness, not for the sake of his dispute and trial.
Sixth: Go to him at a calm pace, and you look at him with a look from which love and longing tenderness, and you smile in his face. The cutest of you though he is the manuscript
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